Wednesday, February 26, 2014

What is So Wrong With Being a Lady?

     Very morning when I wake up, I get a cup of coffee and get on Facebook and Instagram. I keep seeing girls posting pictures with duck faces and using gang symbols. It breaks my heart to see a generation not respecting themselves. It's sad. A girl doesn't have to wear yards of pink or 6in heels everyday. It's good to have many different personalities of ladies. My issue is respecting yourself. In a media driven culture you get bullied for not doing what everyone else is doing. I want to encourage girls to be yourself. Stop taking pictures that make you look "cool" in our culture. It is time to stand up for feminism. There is nothing wrong with being feminine and going hunting. There is nothing wrong with being feminine and wearing gym shorts. You don't have to wear makeup and jewelry. Treating yourself as a lady and demanding others (especially guys!) treat you as a lady. That is being feminine. We are being robbed of it, because it's not cool.



I have two "me's" ( if you will ). I love doing my hair and makeup, picking out my outfits. Doing my nails. At church I wear heels. If you saw me on the street or just walking into church you would never know that I have a whole other side to me. The other side of me loves being out in the woods, bonfires, jeans and listening to country music. I love smores and throwing my hair up in a messy bun.

 I don't always wear makeup. I love animals, being with my friends and family. There is nothing wrong with not having any makeup on and having your hair done. At the end of the day as long as you love the person God has created you to be. Why should it matter what everybody else thinks? Why do we allow ourselves to be swayed by social media, and what is in. There is nothing lady like about twerking, taking selfies with almost no clothing. There is nothing wrong with being confident and I hope you are. But when you think about your self worth, don't cheapen it! 

 There is nothing wrong with being a career woman, a stay at home mom. There is nothing wrong with wearing jeans or a dress, pearls or a small cross necklace. Your favorite color doesn't have to be pink, it can be any color. Being lady is an attitude. It is being respected for who you are and not accepting anything less then so. 

So here's to being ladies! 

~ Brandy

Saturday, February 22, 2014

My Wedding Day: June 1,2013

   I love weddings, I rejoice with those who get engaged and pray for every girl to have their wedding dreams come true. I want to blog about my wedding. (7 months almost 8 months after) I am going to share what I felt was worth the cost and ways that I saved money. As well as something things that I did that I feel made my day special. Our venue was at Deer Creek Overlook.


                                                            Decorations:

I did some major DIY. I did all the flowers, and between me and my mom we purchased some a little here and a little there. I had a theme, southern garden.


Here are a couple of Instagram pictures of what I did on my own as well as pictures from the wedding.


My mom bought the cake stand from HomeGoods. I bought the ribbon and the button from Walmart. Then I weaved the ribbon through and put the button on it.



Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
 
The small chalkboards I got from Etsy ( I don't remember the vendor) I bought the liquid chalk from Michaels in the wedding section.
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
I was having an outdoor wedding, and there was no way I was going to wear heels. Not only that but I wanted shoes that I could easily kick off and dance. I got the shoes from Walmart, and the decals from Michaels.
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Instead of programs we did a poster board. We made it look like a chalkboard. One side had the bridal party and on the other side order of ceremony.
 
 
 Our favors were S'mores. S'mores is a huge part of our love story. It only made sense that a piece of how we met was a favor for our wedding.
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Our center pieces were a framed table number, a lantern, a flower in a glass, and a thick piece of scrapbook paper underneath. Then have the s'mores around it. I love lanterns and used lanterns for the aisle as well.
 
 
 

I did the flowers myself. I got the flowers from Walmart and Michaels. 
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren by Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
For my throwing bouquet, I made a small bouquet that broke apart and more then one girl got a flower.
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
I did not do a seating chart. I bought a sign from Etsy and it is universal that I can use it in my home as well.
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
 
                                          Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography

   We had some loved ones that have passed that we wanted a way to honor them. I made a table to display photos and have a candle lite.

                                                               
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
My mom made this marker so that people could find the venue.
 
Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Instead of doing the ring pillow, we made a sign. I painted the sign itself and my mom did the lettering.
 
Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
The ceremony we kept it simple at the beginning of the aisle and at the end, we put a lantern on each side and a small pot of flowers.
 
Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
We did a sand ceremony as a nod to my love of the beach. I got saved on the beach and it only seemed fitting to use sand to symbolize our unity together in Christ using sand. The sand and the sand heart shaped holder is from Michaels. The flowers were something that was at our house. even though our colors were pink and navy, I did not want pink sand, but chose the natural color and blue.
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
I had two cousins serving overseas at the time of my wedding. They both wanted to be there. So as a way of showing thanks for serving our country and knowing they were their in heart, we had a table in honor of them.
 
 
I made small cards for significant others of some of our bridal party, inviting them to sit with their loved one. I didn't get a picture of them but I was thanked for the gesture. :)
 
 
It was worth it:
 
 
There were some things that I bought and things I decided to invest in that really, looking back I would do it all over again.
 
 
1. Having a wedding coordinator.
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
I am so happy I had wedding coordinators at my wedding! It was so nice to know that there were people who helped to make my day run without a hitch. They did such an excellent job with my wedding that I highly recommend them, and if I ever have a party and need planners I will go back to using them. Courtney and Rebecca were amazing!
I used: Moore & Co. Event Stylists http://mooreandcoevents.com/#/home/  
 
 
 
2. My Wedding Dress and Veil.
 
Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
The first time I saw this dress I knew it was the one. The dress was what I was excited about. I love this dress and it fit perfectly with my theme, and the venue.  Here are some of my favorite dress shots.
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography

Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography

Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography

Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography

Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
 
 
 
 
My Veil was another love at first sight.. It was long and beautiful. I pray that my daughters will love it and use it. The beauty of this veil is that I plan to have it as an heirloom. Here are some of my favorite shots of my veil.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
I got my dress and veil at :K&B Bridals http://www.kandbbridals.com/
 
 
3. Hair and Makeup
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
I got my hair and makeup done at Salon 23
 
 
Special Moments:
 
Then you have all the wonderful memories that you make.
 
1. First Looks.
 
Colin
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
My dad
 
 
 
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
2. First Kiss
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
4. Happy Birthday Aunt Diane
(Our wedding day was the same day of my Great Aunt Diane's birthday and we say Happy Birthday and presented her with flowers)
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
3. First Dance
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
4. Parent Dances
 
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
5. Cake Cutting
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Music:
 
I love music and I love dancing. Here is a list of some of the songs that were played.
 
1. Ceremony
From This Moment by Shania Twain ( instrumental)
Making the Movies Jealous by Kristen McNamara
A Thousand Years by Christina Perri (Instrumental) * I walked down the aisle to this song*
Stuck on You by Elvis Presley
The songs above were played off of my iPhone by our friend Shawn Cappron
 
We had our friends Aubrey and Amanda Roach sing In Christ Alone
 
Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
2. Reception
 
The Way You Smile by Newsong ( first dance)
I Loved Her First by Heartland (father/daughter dance)
Handprints on the Wall by Kenny Rodgers (mother/son dance)
I See the Light from the movie Tangled (cake cutting)
  and of course dance music!!
our DJ was Bill Braun
 
                 Photo by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography



             Photo by: Shannon McFerren of  Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
Photo by: Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography
 
 
 
Our videographer was my Uncle Ozzie
 
 
Our Photographer was Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography http://www.shannonmcferrenphotography.com/
 
We were so blessed to have Mrs. Shannon do our wedding. She did such a fantastic job. She did our engagement photos as well. Here are some of my favorite shots.
All photos below were photographed by Shannon McFerren of Shannon McFerren Photography



 



 







 





















































































I know this was a long one! I hope you enjoy this post and I hope you have a blessed day! 

~ Brandy